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In It Together, You Can Do Anything!
The first peer forum for ambitious couples. Powered by Gottman, the Enneagram, and the Five Love Languages.
Apply for the First Cohort
The first peer forum for ambitious couples. Powered by Gottman, the Enneagram, and the Five Love Languages.
Apply for the First Cohort
Couples Apps
Paired, Lasting, etc.
Quizzes & exercises
No community. No peers. No live facilitation.
Couples Therapy
Gottman, BetterHelp
Professional guidance
No peer group. No ongoing community.
Peer Forums
EO, YPO, Vistage
Deep peer connection
Excludes your spouse. Keeps you apart.
In It Together
All Three — Together
Peer forum + proven frameworks + exclusive app + AI matching — designed for couples, not individuals.
You're in EO, YPO, or a peer group — and wish your spouse could experience Forum too
You invest in coaches, masterminds, and retreats — but never in your relationship as a couple
You're ambitious in business and want to be just as intentional about your marriage
You want to connect with other couples who get it — the highs, the lows, and everything in between
You've joined EO, YPO, or Vistage. You have a coach, a therapist, maybe a mastermind group. You invest tens of thousands of dollars a year in your professional growth.
But here's what nobody talks about: those same forums ask you to share your deepest vulnerabilities with strangers while keeping everything from the person who matters most — your spouse.
The result? Entrepreneurs are nearly twice as likely to divorce as the general population. 70% of founders going through divorce say they can't focus on their business. And the loneliest seat at the table is the spouse who hears "I can't talk about Forum."
No other program in the world combines all three of these research-backed relationship systems.
Based on 40+ years of research studying 3,000+ couples. Dr. John Gottman can predict relationship success with 94% accuracy. Our curriculum is built on his Sound Relationship House framework — from building Love Maps to managing conflict constructively.
Nine personality types. Nine ways of seeing the world. Understanding your type — and your partner's — transforms how you communicate, argue, and love. Know your core motivations, your stress patterns, and how to show up for each other when it matters most.
Words of Affirmation. Acts of Service. Receiving Gifts. Quality Time. Physical Touch. When you speak your partner's language, everything changes. When you don't, even the best intentions get lost in translation.
EO and YPO have proven that small, confidential peer groups transform lives. Their members report it as the single most valuable part of membership — more than the conferences, the content, or the network.
We've taken that proven model and redesigned it from the ground up for ambitious couples — so you grow together instead of apart.
Intimate enough for real vulnerability. Large enough for diverse perspectives. The size backed by decades of peer group research.
Structured, facilitated sessions combining Gottman exercises, Enneagram exploration, and Love Language practice. Join from anywhere or gather in person. Not therapy — transformation.
One immersive retreat experience per year that deepens connections between couples and within your forum community.
Between sessions, your forum stays connected. Share wins, ask for support, and practice what you're learning in real time.
Married at home plate at a Brooklyn Cyclones game in front of 7,000 fans. Built and sold an 8-figure company together. Raised three kids. Hosted the "In It Together" podcast. Survived every storm entrepreneurs face — and came out stronger.
Dave is a 4x author (including NYT bestseller Likeable Social Media), a 16-year EO/YPO Forum member, an Enneagram Type 3 married to a Type 2, and a student of Gottman's work for over a decade. Carrie is the operational powerhouse who scaled Likeable Media to an 8-figure exit at 8.5x EBITDA.
Together, they've lived what they teach — and they're building the program they wish had existed 20 years ago.
Using our proprietary AI matching model, you'll be paired with couples who share your values, are in the same stage of life, and complement your personality dynamics. We analyze your Enneagram profiles, Love Language patterns, relationship goals, and life circumstances to create forum groups where every couple belongs — and every conversation resonates.
This isn't random grouping. It's intentional community, engineered for depth.
AI-powered pairing based on personality, values, life stage, and goals
Daily exercises, relationship tools, and connection between sessions — built exclusively for In It Together members
Personalized Gottman exercises, Enneagram insights, and Love Language prompts tailored to your unique couple profile
We're hand-selecting 5 ambitious couples for our first forum cohort. Spots are limited because intimacy doesn't scale — and we're building something that lasts.
We're building a network of exceptional facilitators — relationship coaches, therapists, Gottman-trained professionals, and Enneagram practitioners — to lead In It Together forums in cities around the world.
If you're passionate about helping ambitious couples thrive and want to be part of something new, we'd love to hear from you.
YPO or EO Forum experience a plus!